After a discussion with a friend yesterday, I came to the conclusion, that my post wasn't clear enough. I try to clarify a bit.
I don't care about: people hear that they do stupid things, they feel stupid.
I do care about: people hear that they do stupid things, they understand they were told to be stupid.
Spot the difference?
What I'm saying is, people are outright incapable of making a difference between criticism on their actions and criticism on their person. By my observation it's worse with negative criticisms.
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